Solitude
“I don’t like work—no man does—but I like what is
in the work,—the chance to find yourself. Your own reality—for yourself, not
for others—what no other man can ever know.”
Marlow—Heart of Darkness
I’ve heard it argued many times that the reason
for America’s fitness failures is some combination of ignorance and
inaccessibility. Sounds plausible:
If people don’t know what they should be eating or how much they should be
exercising, how can we expect them to stay healthy? So we go about increasing awareness and try to infuse our
culture with fitness. The topic
makes a home on the talk show circuit and carves out a daily niche on the local
news. The marketplace explodes
with informational videos, online tutorials, and $5 per month gym memberships. The number of gyms in America rises to
an all-time high. Additionally,
restaurants are required by law to disclose the nutritional content of their
food. All the pieces are falling
into place. Yet all reliable
statistics indicate that we are more sickly, more injured, and more overweight
than we’ve ever been. I’ll say it
again: with more resources and more knowledge than ever before, we are the
least healthy we’ve ever been. This
unequivocally tells me that information and accessibility are not the issue.
So, how is it possible that with so many tools at
our disposal we still find a way to fail so miserably? The easy answer is that we just don’t
care. I’ll admit, the simplicity
of this is tempting. But there has always been a section of society that could
give two shits, and I don’t believe that those apathetic few are the only thing
contributing to a problem this big.
I believe that for the larger “caring” subsection, the issue is something
closer to mental crowding. We live
in a world more immediate and barraging than any our ancestors had to navigate. We have more resources, authorities,
and research than they ever did. I
believe that as the flow of information has grown, so too has our inability to
process it. Where they went days or
weeks between news cycles, giving them ample time to think and formulate
opinions, we are refreshed within minutes. How do we form coherent thoughts on fitness when Google
pulls up 100,000 returns to our search?
How do we digest the value of health and wellness while scrolling
through infomercial after infomercial on premium cable? The answer is, we don’t. We observe, briefly acknowledge, and
change the channel.
Unfortunately, this doesn’t cut it. Whether the subject is politics,
religion, family, or fitness, skimming the headlines will never be enough to
make an informed decision. You
have to dig deeper, discover facts from multiple sources, then take your time
digesting that information. This
is the critical element. Rarely is
your first thought your finest—in fact, it’s usually somebody else’s. Yet the overwhelming trend in our
society is to make up our minds quicker and quicker. In our effort to be decisive and efficient (read: laziness) we
bypass the reflective stage of problem solving and cut straight to the chase. Every diet book is a bible, every fat
busting tool is a magic bean. We
buy them without understanding their cause or purpose and hope they’ll solve
our problems. Looking at health
through the eyes of its advertisers, we’re no longer fitness practitioners—we’re
fitness consumers. And as long as
we see fitness as something that must be done “to us” rather than “for us,” we
will never internalize the message.
The solution to this problem is threefold.
First, we need to appreciate the gravity of what
we’re facing:
-We live in a world of highly processed, if not
completely contaminated food sources.
Choosing to ignore this fact increases our risk of practically every
disease known to man.
-Our typical daily routine demands hours of
sitting, a position that directly opposes the healthy, pain free evolution of
our species. Choosing to ignore
this fact increases our risk of practically every injury known to man.
-If you ask the average person on the street what
it means to be fit, they’ll point to a picture of Kate Moss. Choosing to ignore this fact might actually
save your life.
Needless to say, the deck is stacked against you.
Second, we have to examine our limitations
carefully, locate their origins, and go find tools that can push us past them. This requires research, patience, and
the permission to make mistakes. No
blanket diagnosis fits everyone, so stop assuming your condition is a perfect
match with the latest episode of Dr. Oz.
Fixing a postural distortion will take years, so don’t get discouraged
when you can’t fix it with 2 weeks of Mobility WODs. Your fitness journey will last the rest of your life—you have
to accept that there are no shortcuts.
Finally, we have to deafen our ears to the
musings of our friends. Their
reasons are not your reasons, their problems are not your problems. We have to discover for ourselves how
and why fitness will benefit our lives, take the time to seek out the best
method of achieving it, then take ownership of the process of doing so. Emerson wrote that we “must be defended
from travelling with the souls of other men, from living, breathing, reading,
and writing in the daily, time-worn yoke of their opinions.” As it pertains to fitness, this means
training for your own reasons, not somebody else’s. Take what others say and do, learn from it, and continue
on. 
Underpinning all of this is solitude. If we don’t give ourselves the space to
ask real questions, we will never be capable of finding real answers. Comfort
food, alcohol, Facebook, and YouTube are all just elaborate distractions. You won’t find yourself there. As humans, we need isolation to sift
through the vocal chorus in our heads and determine which voice is ours. And that doesn’t mean going off on a
cliff somewhere and staring into the sunset (although that is a totally awesome
way to do it). It can be as simple
as a workout alone in your garage or a ten minute session on the yoga mat. Whatever it takes to quiet your mind
and focus your energy to a single point.
Like Marlow said, no man likes work, but what’s in the work has real and
lasting value. Spend some time determining what that is. 
